Monogamy is a thing where I'm from too, and I even tried it with someone, before coming here. It worked and all, I'm not a cheater, but I think this is more me. It's really about communication, making sure everyone gets it. Mat and I are good at that, with each other and with other people. I don't think the heart has a limited amount of space, it's endless to me. The way I care about people is infinite.
Eh, we don't worry much about boundaries. We always know where each other stand. Sometimes boundaries about other people become a thing, such as Kaz being an unrelenting dick to him, but it's not because he has to share. I love the man, but he is a dick to most people.
You've also been here longer than me and there's definitely something in the waters we wash up from that makes everyone sorta needlessly horny. I do agree that limiting yourself to caring about just one person over everyone else is- well, fucking stupid.
I'm not worried about your boundaries, I'm worried about mine. I mean- don't get me wrong, if I thought you had boundaries I'd worry about them but so far I haven't found any. I want to have fun, enjoy myself, and make a life worth having. I just don't know what that looks like, which is fucking scary.
I've met Kaz now, he tried to convince me he wasn't a fighter after berating a monster into leaving. He sure is something.
It's okay if that's what someone wants. Wilhelm for example would probably prefer monogamy if he fell in love, I know him very well, so everyone's different. The guy I was monogamous with is here now. We're working on being okay with each other. He's a good sort, Wylan, you might've seen him around the inn.
Oh yeah, that makes sense. I want to respect your boundaries and encourage you to learn what they are, love. It is scary to open yourself up like this to so many people, but the rewards really are worth it. Finding a place you belong can be everything.
Ha! That's him alright. He's the head of our gang, the entire city's terrified of him.
I'm the wrong person to figure out what is and isn't right about romance.
Which is why spending the night after my party exploring the ins and outs of sex on he Horizon is on the table. It's a lot easier to try new things when I trust the guy I'm with and a lot less terrified then I would be with someone new. I'll try to find new people later.
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Date: 2023-09-13 02:15 am (UTC)Eh, we don't worry much about boundaries. We always know where each other stand. Sometimes boundaries about other people become a thing, such as Kaz being an unrelenting dick to him, but it's not because he has to share. I love the man, but he is a dick to most people.
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Date: 2023-09-13 07:53 pm (UTC)I'm not worried about your boundaries, I'm worried about mine. I mean- don't get me wrong, if I thought you had boundaries I'd worry about them but so far I haven't found any. I want to have fun, enjoy myself, and make a life worth having. I just don't know what that looks like, which is fucking scary.
I've met Kaz now, he tried to convince me he wasn't a fighter after berating a monster into leaving. He sure is something.
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Date: 2023-09-16 02:22 am (UTC)Oh yeah, that makes sense. I want to respect your boundaries and encourage you to learn what they are, love. It is scary to open yourself up like this to so many people, but the rewards really are worth it. Finding a place you belong can be everything.
Ha! That's him alright. He's the head of our gang, the entire city's terrified of him.
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Date: 2023-09-19 03:06 pm (UTC)Which is why spending the night after my party exploring the ins and outs of sex on he Horizon is on the table. It's a lot easier to try new things when I trust the guy I'm with and a lot less terrified then I would be with someone new. I'll try to find new people later.
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