Jesper's just very experienced, and he's excellent at reading other people. He's very empathic and understanding. He uses his skilled mouth and tongue to get Kell off again, and once he does in fact drink every drop without spilling, he gets up again. "Come with me, sweetheart." He pulls him over toward the couch first, leaving the bed for the next part of this.
They're both naked as the day they were born and he lounges comfortably, putting an arm around Kell once he tugs him down. Showing him constant attention so he knows there is no negativity here and that Jesper wants him to be close. He kisses him slow and tender, a stark contrast to their intensity. There is true affection in their sex, he wants that to be clear. All of this requires trust.
"Okay sweetheart. I suspect while you've fantasized about what you want, you haven't actually done it before. Which I don't mind, I love that I'm being your guide into this level of kink. But it is incredibly important in this situation to communicate. We can enjoy more sexual talk once we get started, but first let's just get some information."
Jesper doesn't worry that it becomes less sexy because they talk about it in more direct terms first. Once they actually get involved in sex, anything they say will be inherently hot. It's not a concern. What's sexy is both of them feeling good and on the same page. That's what he wants Kell to feel here. He isn't there yet, he is still struggling to find the words. He runs his hand soothingly through Kell's red hair.
"What I was told the first time I started playing with bondage and all this was that if I can't talk about it, I shouldn't be doing it." He's hoping that explaining he went through this entire thing himself will make Kell feel better about it. Jesper was new to everything once upon a time too. And while he's always been a lot more comfortable talking about sex, it doesn't mean he just naturally knew all these things. Sexual partners have to be on the same wavelength to do this in a healthy way.
"What do you want to do?" He smiles at him. "If you want to say it sexy you can, just say it." Meaning if Kell feels better using his dominant tone to get the message across he is allowed to do that. Whatever it takes.
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They're both naked as the day they were born and he lounges comfortably, putting an arm around Kell once he tugs him down. Showing him constant attention so he knows there is no negativity here and that Jesper wants him to be close. He kisses him slow and tender, a stark contrast to their intensity. There is true affection in their sex, he wants that to be clear. All of this requires trust.
"Okay sweetheart. I suspect while you've fantasized about what you want, you haven't actually done it before. Which I don't mind, I love that I'm being your guide into this level of kink. But it is incredibly important in this situation to communicate. We can enjoy more sexual talk once we get started, but first let's just get some information."
Jesper doesn't worry that it becomes less sexy because they talk about it in more direct terms first. Once they actually get involved in sex, anything they say will be inherently hot. It's not a concern. What's sexy is both of them feeling good and on the same page. That's what he wants Kell to feel here. He isn't there yet, he is still struggling to find the words. He runs his hand soothingly through Kell's red hair.
"What I was told the first time I started playing with bondage and all this was that if I can't talk about it, I shouldn't be doing it." He's hoping that explaining he went through this entire thing himself will make Kell feel better about it. Jesper was new to everything once upon a time too. And while he's always been a lot more comfortable talking about sex, it doesn't mean he just naturally knew all these things. Sexual partners have to be on the same wavelength to do this in a healthy way.
"What do you want to do?" He smiles at him. "If you want to say it sexy you can, just say it." Meaning if Kell feels better using his dominant tone to get the message across he is allowed to do that. Whatever it takes.